Steel Bondage
Cuffs snap shut immediately. It clicks and crunches and you are defenceless. That sounds cool. But be careful that the cuffs are not too tight. Otherwise you will have to struggle with numb joints for days or weeks and it is not worth it. Good handcuffs have a safety catch that prevents them from being squeezed further when you lock them in place. So don’t use handcuffs that don’t cost at least 20 euros. Cheaper ones are only suitable as decoration for the carnival procession or the CSD and not for a session!
Cable ties are very cheap, available in every DIY store and are often used by the police to arrest and quickly immobilise particularly risk-taking participants in certain demonstrations. They are suitable for this purpose to a certain extent. You can also use them to fix rose bushes or to tie a trellis to a railing. For a bondage session, however, please leave them alone! Everything that applies to handcuffs applies even more to bondage with cable ties. They cut off the blood supply completely even at low overpressure and can only be opened again with a good pair of scissors. It is incredibly stupid to use cable ties as cock rings!
While bondage with (cotton!) rope – done by someone skilled – is quite horny and fulfilling, everything takes time. If you only have fifteen minutes to spare, you’d better not start with a full-body rope bondage. Leather restraints are – once put on – comfortable and relatively safe as long as you keep an eye on your bottom. More expensive restraints are also lockable and effectively keep someone from doing anything they don’t want to do. If you want to be completely safe, you can put mittens on your toy before putting it on, or tape its fingers together.
The ultima ratio of bondage tools are harnesses, pillories and straitjackets. They convey an indescribable feeling of helplessness, but unfortunately are not for the slender purse. However, you can easily put your partner in a straitjacket overnight. He’ll be a little hungover the next morning, but otherwise he’ll feel fine. Especially if you’ve helped his fantasies along in the meantime so that the night isn’t too long for him.
